Breaking the news

Some teens find it hard to tell their friends and others about their parents splitting up.  Sometimes they worry about what others will think.  Sometimes they think their friends will think they are different now, when all that has really changed is their family.  Here are a couple of suggestions:

	Take your time. You don't have to tell anyone until you feel ready.
	Tell one friend at a time.
	Choose a quiet, relaxed time, when you know you'll have a few minutes to talk, without worrying about others listening, or having to rush off to class or another activity.

Remember: Good friends will be glad you've told them, and will know that you're still you, even though your family is changing.